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Makes-Me-Smile Monday: Pioneers and Petticoats

07.23.07 | blogging, LDS Church | 3 Comments

picasso-flower-bouquet-logo-copy2.jpgWelcome to the Pioneers edition of Makes-Me-Smile Monday. On the 24th of July, 1847, the first Mormon Pioneers entered the Salt Lake Valley after an arduous journey. You can read more about them, look at cool maps, and read firsthand accounts here. Most of the Pioneers made incredible sacrifices, especially those who traveled by handcart. Sometimes I’ve almost envied them because they got to walk their faith every day. Then I had kids, and I realized that it would not be fun potty-training on the plains, or worrying about life without penicillin.

One of my ancestors, not a direct one, died of an infected zit on her forehead when she was 14. I have other ancestors who were Mormon Pioneers, though my great-great grandfather and mother (Andrew and Olene) weren’t technically “pioneers” (according to wikipedia.org anyway) because they came after the railroad was finished.

Today, in anticipation of a coming exodus: Jane & Dick back to St. Petersburg, Marcy & Adam – well, back to Santaquin anyway, Brad and Hannah to Rochester for med school, Karin to BYU, and Ryan – back to high school soon, we had an extended family dinner. All the progeny of my parents were present. Five kids, three kids-in-law, and six grandkids.

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We were talking about how we personally set our course in life (in this setting, on Sunday, how we come unto Christ and declare and keep our loyalty to Him). And whether (and how) we can set our children on the same course. There are those who would say that a religious upbringing and/or a religious faith is a brainwashing, a denial of a person’s natural enquiry. I don’t feel that way. I was born into the church I plan to belong to forever, and I was baptized as a matter of course at 8, but I was thoroughly converted at 19. Dick joined the church at 15, and was thoroughly converted on his mission when he was 19. I feel I can speak and think rationally about other religions and possibilities, but I both think and feel that this church is the true church.

How do we know when we should become pioneers? When we should leave the lands of our fathers or the institutions or ideas of the past and venture into the unknown, open up new areas of thought, and lead the way for others to follow? At 19 I went to Europe. Dick went to Venezuela. After we were married, we went to Japan for a few months and then to New York City for three years. In the history of our marriage and family, those ventures, far from family and friends, gave us the space and time to build something new.

Brigham Young said:

 We would esteem a territorial government of our own as one of the richest boons of earth, and while we appreciate the Constitution of the United States as the most precious among the nations, we feel that we had rather retreat to the deserts, islands or mountain caves than consent to be ruled by governors and judges whose hands are drenched in the blood of innocence and virtue, who delight in injustice and oppression.

Of course, our families were not anywhere near as oppressive as the mobs in Missouri and Illinois. But the entrenchment of routine and familiar spaces and opportunities, the friends and interests who might distract us and the endless family ’dos all add up to a benevolent smothering, a muting of the intimacy and necessary reliance on one’s self and one’s closest companion. I don’t think we can know ourselves or anyone else until we have been pioneers — of mind, spirit, or space.

Pioneers have to know what they’re doing and why. If you have to walk every day and possibly bury a child or eat crappy camp food and defend your meager belongings as “necessities,” you’re probably pretty aware of how starkly your life is differing from how others are living theirs. And somehow you have to be glad for those differences, convinced that they will lead to greater happiness any day now.

I hope you have some thoughts on pioneers. I didn’t really intend to go on about religious things. But it is still Sunday (just barely) as I write this, and I am still at my parents, who said today that it wasn’t as if they would stop loving us if we left the church, but we would be out of the will. “There’s a will?” asked Karin. Kind of like how we can make our own decisions as long as they’re the right ones.

If you have any questions about how to participate, see the Makes-Me-Smile Monday link above. I was thinking earlier of writing about pioneers like Marie Curie or the Suffragists (boy that word looks funny; maybe I’m just tired) — anyway, my point being that I’d welcome writing on any kind of pioneer.

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